tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-66576425236489109952024-03-14T07:05:52.382-07:00A girl named LizzieLizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-11393954088413196402014-08-08T07:56:00.001-07:002014-08-08T07:56:25.584-07:00Hot Chocolate in LAI wish I were more acquainted with the floor. It seems to be everybody's best friend. Stare at the floor. Count the tiles. Avoid the cracks. But whatever you do, don't make eye contact with the person walking towards you. The person with a personality. The person with a religion. The person with a history. But the ground those people walk on is always more interesting. <div><br></div><div>I've been in the LAX airport for 48 minutes now. I walked around for a bit and tried to find a coffee shop that sold hot chocolate.</div><div><br></div><div>Okay. First off. Rant. Tangent. Social kenundrum. Nobody sells good old-fashioned hot chocolate anymore! It took me 17 minutes to locate a hot beverage that wasn't coffee!</div><div><br></div><div>Then I sat on a ledge that overlooks an escalator, munched on a warm chocolate muffin, and sipped away at my hot chocolate. Yum. Who wouldn't be smiling? </div><div><br></div><div>So I'm smiling. Honestly, I haven't been able to stop smiling all morning. I'm in Los Angeles, which is gorgeous. Overcast, warm, and calm. I'm going to see my best friend for the weekend and I kind of can't hold my pants on because I'm so excited. I'm in a smiley mood. </div><div><br></div><div>So far, two stewardesses and three pilots have returned my smiles. Everyone else is fascinated with this carpet! It really is nice carpet, but it's a shame that living, breathing people don't render the kind of response that the floor receives. </div><div><br></div><div>My brown paper bag with gooey chocolate muffin lining the sides will smile back at me. </div>Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-64150344218455010542014-04-10T18:44:00.001-07:002014-04-10T18:44:17.952-07:00A Fresh Batch of Fun UnderwearI'm standing in line for my last final of freshman year right now. <div><br></div><div>Yes, in line. Yes, I've been in line for a while. No, I won't be getting in anytime soon. So I'll blog. </div><div><br></div><div>About underwear. </div><div><br></div><div>You know how you have your favorite pairs of underwear? The most comfortable ones. The ones that make you feel fancy. The ones that you wear with a smile because even though nobody else will see, you know that you secretly look really hot right now. Wear it with pride. </div><div><br></div><div>Ooh! The line just moved. </div><div><br></div><div>It just makes you feel cool to feel hot underneath. </div><div><br></div><div>Yesterday, Leanna turns to me and says, "I need to do a batch of fun underwear. Do you have anything I should throw in?" And that's when it hit me - exactly how much I'm going to miss my roommate and best friend. Because she knows that fun underwear makes a difference in your day. </div><div><br></div><div>And because without her, I wouldn't have my favorite underwear on right now.</div><div><br></div><div>But I do. </div><div><br></div><div>Which means I'll get at least ten points higher on this final. Proven fact. </div><div><br></div><div>That is, if I ever actually make it to the front of the line...</div>Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-8585758075302652622014-03-03T11:25:00.000-08:002014-03-03T11:25:08.728-08:00The Best Day EverA friend asked me the other day how I can be so happy when I spend my free time studying something so dark. After all, I am in school to study suicide. It's not always an easy subject.<div>
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Some days it's an easy response: "I just aced a test, a friend surprised me with my favorite Jones soda this morning, and I have a hot date tonight. Today is the best day ever."</div>
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Most days I focus more on the little things: "I didn't have any nightmares last night, my hair is brushed, and I have ingredients for cookie dough in my fridge. Today is the best day ever."</div>
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A little while back, I asked family and friends to define happiness, potential, and success. Here were some of the responses.<br />
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<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is family. Potential is the ability to be the best. Success is finding joy in every thing, good or bad.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Success is exerting your potential. Potential is something you can only use if you're happy. Happiness is being successful, in even the tiny things.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is a choice. Potential is exponential but limited. Success is loving completely without expectation of it being returned.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is great. Potential is in everyone. Success is based on perspective.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is attainable. Potential is often unrecognized. Success is worthwhile.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is chocolate. And Harry Potter. Potential is life. Success is career.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is a choice. Potential is tantamount to growth. Success is what happens when you allow yourself to grow.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>Happiness is a choice. Potential is endless and within us. Success is living true to what lies within us.</i><br />
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Every single one of these responses could make me sit and think for hours. Even the one about chocolate.<br />
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To me, happiness is recognizing not only that you have the potential to be successful, but that you have already been successful.<br />
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I believe that rising above anything is success. And some days, rising above the urge to stay under the soft, warm covers may be the hardest thing we've ever done. It's a cold world out there. You will inevitably make mistakes out there. Success is getting out of bed and saying "I'm ready to start the day."<br />
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And today is going to be <i>the best day ever.</i></div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-14040453245546933202014-02-07T15:10:00.002-08:002014-02-07T15:10:44.439-08:00I Play the Wallflower InstrumentMy hands have recently said goodbye to my viola. My calluses are gone. My fingers are nice and smooth. I haven't had to super-glue my bleeding fingertips in <i>months. </i>I have hit the hardest phase of withdrawal yet: the sickening realization that you can't live without the thing you just gave up. My baby is 236 miles away, in a cold, dark case.<br />
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The last time I saw her, I was leaving her along the back of my wall. Only now do I realize how poetic the placement was; the viola, wallflower instrument.<br />
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A pretty typical response that I get when I first make mention of my viola might follow the lines of, "what's a viola?"<br />
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Basically, a violin on steroids. I like this video because it shows off a bit of the range. We can go lower than a violin. And we're way bigger so we can smash your violin into the ground.<br />
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Can't wait to see my baby next week. Forgive me, Viola?Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-40199641771857215942014-01-31T13:12:00.001-08:002014-01-31T13:12:19.085-08:00I Left My Popcorn Bowl At Taylor'sOkay. I take it back.<br />
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Have we kept this goal either? Of course not! Cookie dough will never stop being an essential. And we college kids like to stick to our four main food groups: junk, junk food, less junky food, and junk our parents wouldn't approve of. Sorry, Mom.<br />
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Then I realized I was in the mood for something salty. Pasta and sauce takes too much effort. Toast involves more than one ingredient and therefore wasn't worth it either. Popcorn was the obvious choice.<br />
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I sat there, watching a show, absentmindedly texting and blogging, and eating my popcorn. Then Taylor called me and invited me to lunch.<br />
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Not quite finished with my popcorn, my first instinct was to finish it along the way. I grabbed the bowl and walked to Taylor's. We talked to some friends for awhile and when it was time to leave, I figured I'd be back, so I left the bowl on the counter.<br />
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I didn't realize until last night at 11:47 while Taylor was indisposed that I hadn't retrieved her. At 11:46 I attempted to make a bowl of popcorn for Savanna, J-Lo, and I and realized that my perfect popcorn bowl, the one that fits the entire bag so perfectly, was not here.<br />
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I haven't seen my bowl since. Poor girl. Just sitting there, all alone. Unappreciated. Laying in her own buttery filth. Nobody to wash her, clean her, lick the salt off her. I'll come for you, Genene! If it's the last thing I do!<br />
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If anything good has come out of this, I suppose it would be my realization that I need to rely a little less on popcorn. And eat healthier. And make a goal that I can actually reach.<br />
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Maybe tomorrow. For now, I just want Genene back.Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-1073130822951430842014-01-31T00:02:00.000-08:002014-01-31T00:02:20.538-08:0012:54<div>
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Yes, I am perfectly aware that there are ways to fix this exhaustion. Ways to cure the social bug I've caught. Ways to fix my relationship with my mattress. But I choose not to.<br />
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It's just too difficult to part with routine! For instance, the typical evening goes something like this:<br />
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5:30 Meet up with everyone. Run off to volleyball practice, spinning class, and/or the pool.<br />
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11:55 Say goodbye to the guys. Make plans for tomorrow.<br />
11:56 Squeal with delight as you get the glorious 30 second run-down of each girl's date.<br />
11:58 Go into detail about each date, beginning with the one that sounded the most exciting. Stay up until 1:00 discussing how tonight went, complaining about guys' inability to <i>just make the move already</i>, and ferociously plotting how tomorrow's dates <i>should </i>go.<br />
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For instance, now. It is 12:48 on a Thursday night. Savanna and I finished our movie at roughly 11:56, just in time to see two dates come through the door. Savanna and I at this point were able to determine how each date went by looking at the faces of each girl and guy that came in. Roommate Number One was kissed by her friendboy for the first time tonight (<i>totally called it!</i>) and Roommate Number Two held hands with her friendboy all night (<i>nailed it!</i>). Naturally, it has taken the full 48 (now 51) minutes to hear each rommate's analysis of the date, the guy, and the relationship. Only 19 of those minutes were deticated to freaking out that Number One's date made the first move.<br />
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Maybe it's just boys that are our problem. Nothing to do with classes or busy schedules. Just boys.<br />
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Once upon a time there was a girl named Lizzie, who may be exhausted, but it's totally worth it. She's living the dream. Roommates, galfriends, guyfriends, food, dating, college. What more could a person want?Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-49299464229623452722013-12-27T01:30:00.000-08:002013-12-29T22:42:02.902-08:00Even Strangers Change<div>
I'm not big on New Year's resolutions. </div>
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As I'm sure most people do, I have a love-hate relationship with change. Change is great when it comes to weather, school classes, friendships, and grades.<br />
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But as far as New Year's resolutions go, change needs to be implemented regularly for maximum improvement. <span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Why wait until the first of the year to make the big change? Bring in the new year a new person!</b></span></div>
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The best kind of changes, though, can also be the <i>unnoticeable </i>kind of changes. At least, the ones we don't recognize until the worst is over. The ones you have to be paying attention to be able to see. </div>
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A few weeks ago, I got my hair cut. And the most bizarre thing happened - everybody noticed. You expect your family to notice and your roommates to notice, but it really makes your day when you meet new people because they compliment your cut. People I had never spoken to were telling me how much they loved my hair short. </div>
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Holy cow! I want to be one of those people! I want to walk up to a random girl that sits in a different section in the orchestra and tell her I love her haircut. Just because I noticed and just because I think it looks cute. What is it about talking to people that I see <i>all the time</i> that freaks me out so much? What's the worst that could happen - they thank me? There are two ways people can react: say something or say nothing. What's the big fuss?</div>
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Second resolution for December 27, 2013: Blog more. I love blogging. Why do I waste my time doing everything else?</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-1906698172313083602013-11-09T00:29:00.002-08:002013-11-09T00:33:25.464-08:00Men Will Be Men<div>
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Every year I participate in a local pageant. Yes, I have a lot of respect for pageants and the women that are a part of the program. Don't mess with me on pageants.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This summer, in preparation for my annual pageant, I found a list of commonly asked interview questions, complete with up-to-date current events and hard questions that can distinguish the airheads from the ones who know what they're talking about. I went through each subject and prepared a brief but direct answer. I was feeling pretty confident about the interview until I stumbled upon one question in particular.</span><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: inherit;">At what point in a girl's life does she become a woman?</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Ask me a question about Egypt or gun control or gay Boy Scouts and I could pull the perfect answer right out of my pocket. Zimmerman trial? Nailed it. Obama care? In the bag. I could hit any question on any controversial topic right out of the park with tact and elegance. But girls becoming women was by far the hardest question to answer.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There's the obvious answer. Boys and girls clearly become legally responsible for themselves when they turn 18 and they become adults when they turn 21. But we all know 17-year-old women and we all know 40-year-old boys. So when do they grow up? What makes them men and women?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I considered when a woman moves out for the first time. But no, I know several girls who moved out just days after graduation simply because they wanted to get away from the "restrictions" of living with their parents.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I considered when a woman gets her first credit card, but quickly realized my mistake. Giving a girl that little piece of plastic can often take a few years off the maturity process. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I figured when a girl tries on her first pair of heels, or something. Just to be funny. But I realized with horror that, by that definition, I had not become a woman yet. No, I needed to fit into the category of being a woman for my answer to sound somewhat professional. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I thought about it all summer long and never really formed a plausible answer. Thank heavens the judges didn't ask me any tough questions. Then again, imagine my frustration when, after all my hard work and preparation, the hardest question given to me was "if you could be any animal, what would you be?". Honestly? I had the <i>best </i>answer on the Boy Scouts.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But today, I found myself returning to this thought when I heard one of my least favorite phrases in the whole dang world, <i>boys will be boys. </i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">At what point in a boy's life does he become a man? Strangely enough, this only took seconds for me to answer. A boy becomes a man when he learns to respect women. When a boy realizes it's cool to talk respectfully to his mother. When a boy realizes that it's okay to help a girl without asking her for her number. When a boy learns that he's not the only one in the world.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.1875px;">So, when does a girl become a woman? This has become a lot easier now: <b>a boy becomes a man when he learns to respect women and a girl becomes a woman when she learns to respect herself. </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.1875px;">So often we see women who can't respect herself enough to walk with confidence. To love her body. To live without the security of a serious relationship. To walk tall without the crutch of popularity or perfection. To define beauty by what she sees in the mirror and not by what she sees on TV.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.1875px;">Come on, girls. Here I stand, begging the men of the world to step forward. But maybe they just need to see a few more beautiful women.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.1875px;">To the man that stopped me a few days ago, told me I was beautiful, and walked away without asking me for my number or anything, thank you. There's hope.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 19.1875px;">To the woman that stopped me on Tuesday and handed me a rose from a bouquet of roses she had just been given, I'm sure by some handsome bachelor, thank you. There's hope.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 19.1875px;">Boys can't "be boys" anymore. Girls can't "be girls" anymore. The excuses stop here. There's no more room in the world for 40-year-old boys and girls.</span></span></span></div>
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Most of all, my <i>room-</i>roommate (there's <i>got </i>to be a better name for that). Meet Leanna.</div>
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<li>We both fear boys a bit. Okay. A lot.</li>
<li>We're each other's anti-wingwoman, meaning if a guy wants to go out with one of us, the other tags along so he can never get past the friend zone.</li>
<li>Favorite words include <i>sappy,</i><i> cheesy, antisocial, </i>and <i>chocolate.</i></li>
<li>We both consider Brad Pitt, Matthew Fox, Chris Evans, Channing Tatum, and Chris Hemsworth, to be the hottest men alive. With an honorary Liam Hemsworth.</li>
<li>We both love the color yellow.</li>
<li>We're both clean!</li>
<li>We love all the same YouTube videos.</li>
<li>Neither of us wears the pants. We both live in sweats and pajamas.</li>
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Favorite Leanna moments: teasing her about a boy that won't leave her alone, staying up until two just laying in bed and quoting Disney movies, making our very first apple pie together, getting through the entire movie <i>World War Z </i>before realizing that Matthew Fox was in it, watching Studio C all night long, going all the way to the grocery store and loading up our food before I realized I had left my debit card at home, and getting her sick off of sushi.</div>
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We actually had a scary moment there where Leanna didn't get a housing contract, so I was alone and she was alone and it was a problem. But we've fixed it. It'll be okay. The nightmares are slowly fading away.</div>
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who couldn't <i>wait </i>to bring her roommate home to her family for Thanksgiving. Here we come, Utah!</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-23023970162285344302013-11-01T18:40:00.002-07:002013-11-01T18:42:38.276-07:00Missing HomeI feel like a little kid the night before Christmas. Except my anticipation won't be relieved for another month and my roommates won't let me listen to Christmas music yet.<br />
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I'm so excited! Only twenty-seven days until the best day of my whole life: I get to go home! I get to see my family!<br />
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I kind of anticipated it; I brought along the family yearbooks so I can crack open a page whenever I need to see Esther sticking out her tongue or my mom petting a kangaroo. But Esther has braces now and I just want to hug my mom. A picture isn't enough. </div>
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I miss the way you can hear my dad singing the tenor part from the other side of the chapel in church. I miss the way Matt laughs when you quote his favorite Studio C videos. I miss the way Esther rolls her big, beautiful eyes when you ask her if she has any cute boys in her math class. I miss the way my mom smiles when she's just snuck an M&M from the desk drawer. She thinks she's sneaky but she totally has an M&M smile. Unfortunately, I think she passed that gene on...</div>
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I probably miss dinner the most. In college you make your own food with two ingredients, eat by yourself, and wash your own dishes. Not only do I miss meals with three or more ingredients (I know why Spain needed a fast route to get their Indian spices now- I would sail the world for taco seasoning, too), but I miss talking to my mom while she makes it. I miss sitting down and eating with the family. Talking about our day. Quoting our favorite movies a hundred times. The way my dad has to be the one to pour the milk and my mom has to dish the vegetables. The way Matt needs to be the only one talking and Esther just stares at herself in the adjacent window the whole time. No answering the phone. No texting. No eating alone. Everybody laughs.</div>
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I miss our evening ritual. After the kids go to bed, Mom and I always curl up by the computer with a carton of Ben and Jerry's to watch our latest show on Netflix. Then Dad gets home and we talk to him. He sits in on the end of our movie. Then I'm supposed to go to bed, but we stay up for another hour discussing politics or something else we don't all agree on.<br />
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I'm so grateful for technology. For texting. For phone calls. For camera phones. For Skype. There is no way I'd be able to do this without technology.<br />
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Twenty-seven days. You can do this, Lizzie.</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-75025050095210834912013-10-21T22:30:00.004-07:002013-10-23T09:45:07.841-07:00I'm in a Thoroughly Modern Mood<i>Oh, the places I'd like to show you.</i><br />
<i>Although I hardly know you,</i><br />
<i>I've a funny feeling</i><br />
<i>We'd make the perfect pair.</i><br />
<i>Famous sights I want to see you seeing,</i><br />
<i>The nights of you-and-me-ing,</i><br />
<i>You, me, we-ing...</i><br />
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Just a minute.<br />
No, no, no, <i>no!</i><br />
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I've had this song stuck in my head for a week.<br />
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That's a week of no sleep, no homework, and no sanity. See, at home, I could just turn on the song and belt out the lyrics at full volume. Somebody would surely sing along. But living with four girls who have never even heard of Millie Dilmount and Jimmy makes it hard for me to sing about them aloud. Millie and Jimmy should be appreciated! And my roommates are focused on homework, so I probably should respect the quiet they need.<br />
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So my headphones are my best friends. And the "repeat" button. Oh, yes. Repeat is my friend.<br />
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Jimmy. Oh, Jimmy. Don't you know what I can't get out of my head?<br />
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Mostly it's just the song <i>What Do I Need With Love?. </i>I apologize if you've gotten a million texts with the lyrics to this song. I'm really struggling.<br />
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I've tried all the tricks. Singing <i>Jingle Bells </i>can even get <i>I Like to Move It </i>out of your head. But less than seven minutes (my longest record) later, I'm humming about a green glass love.<br />
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Oh, well. Someday, I'll travel to New York and blow my life's savings on <i>Wicked </i>and <i>Thoroughly Modern Millie </i>tickets. But until then Manhattan, I'll prepare for you.<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who stuck in her headphones and pressed play. And then repeat.</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-37880718511390637822013-10-19T22:46:00.000-07:002013-10-19T23:31:04.522-07:00Cookie Dough or Cookie Don't<div>
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What should I eat? <i>Cookie dough. </i>What should I eat more of? <i>Cookie dough. </i>What should I do today? <i>Cookie dough. </i>How should I get through the day? <i>Cookie dough. </i>What should I eat for breakfast? <i>Cookie dough. </i>What qualities do I want my future husband to have? <i>Cookie dough.</i><br />
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Today has been one of those <i>extremely </i>productive days. </div>
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One of those stay-in-bed, say-goodbye-to-makeup, rock-those-pajamas, catch-up-on-every-single-episode-of-Psych days. Get out of bed only to make myself a meal. </div>
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<i>Cookie dough. </i>I'm pretty sure heaven is <i>made </i>of cookie dough. Just plain ol' chocolate chip cookie dough.<br />
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On bad days, good days, lazy days, crazy days, cookie dough will always be there. It is my friend.<br />
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That is all. Try some cookie dough.<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who threw off the covers, ran to the fridge, scooped another bowl, and found herself in heaven.</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-87855703828214576052013-10-18T14:58:00.003-07:002013-10-19T13:57:17.886-07:00The 152 Year TantrumEvery now and then, you are reminded of how idiotic people can be. And you just have to smile and say to yourself, "That person is a child of God."<br />
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Like the kids I heard about while going through my high school's new weekly announcement videos (I do that sometimes to catch up on how everyone's doing; sometimes they show funny pictures and stuff. I'm cheesy and stalking everybody on Facebook just doesn't do it for me). I was disappointed to learn that, just like every other year, some loser has ruined it for everybody else by stealing out of a locker. </div>
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Really? What did you take, somebody's physics homework? Good job, kid. What a future. </div>
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And I guess I was kind of an idiot, too, for watching those at 2 in the morning. Waking up for a boring class five hours later was <i>great</i>.</div>
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Get my point? There are idiots in the world. </div>
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Forum was great. We heard from former Utah state senator Robert Bennet, who spoke about the things he's learned in Washington. It was a really cool address. He talked about how Democrats and Republicans are both right and about not judging the other party without learning more about their viewpoints. </div>
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One of the stories he used in his address was about the Civil War. His introductory sentence got as far as "While America was still being torn by the the Civil War-" when the guy next to me says, <i>"which we lost!"</i></div>
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Did you know that we lost the Civil War? Wow, I must have been sick for that history lesson. I feel like I would have remembered that one.<br />
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Let's think of all the reasons that a person might be under the impression that we <i>lost </i>the Civil War. </div>
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He could be a direct descendant of Robert E. Lee or Stonewall Jackson.<br />
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He could be from the South. I've heard that the war really isn't over in the South. </div>
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Which is really very unfortunate. Honestly, what's going to change at this point? We bring the slaves back? We give the South more votes? We take President Lincoln out of office?<br />
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Do we realize that this happened <i>152 years ago? </i>Everybody that fought in the Civil War has been dead for a hundred years! What the heck do people think this temper tantrum accomplishing?<br />
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For one thing, it's causing entertainment for those of us wise enough to realize that<i> America </i>won the Civil War. Really, whether the Union had won or whether they had lost, America still would have won the Civil War.<br />
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I wish I would have asked for that guy's name. I wish I would have asked him for a quote or something. A quote on anything. The Civil War. The United States government of today. How he's survived this long. How many friends he has. If he knows how to tie his own shoes and brush his own teeth.<br />
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So thank you, dear, sweet, child of God. You made me laugh today.<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who lived in the <i>real </i>world, where the Civil War is over. And she boy, is she glad that it's over.</div>
Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-21175414299791633252013-10-16T21:44:00.001-07:002013-10-16T21:44:26.038-07:00My Teacher Knows My NameI just hit "send" on an email that most would say is an overreaction. But it's not.<br />
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An overreaction is the way my body is responding to this flu shot. Just so we're all aware, a flu shot isn't a flu <i>prevention </i>shot. It's a <i>here-we'll-give-you-the-flu-now-so-it-doesn't-inconvenience-you-and-your-busy-schedule-later </i>shot. My body didn't think it was either of the two. My body thought it was the plague or something. By the time you read this, it'll probably be too late; I'll be in a coma.<br />
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So, my email.<br />
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I only have one class with less than 50 people in it. The teacher of that class is actually a relative, so he gets to know my name. He has no choice.<br />
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My other six teachers have more than 50 people in their class and they do not know my name. I'm not offended that they don't know my name; it would almost be concerning if they could pick me out of that crowd. You'd have to get in trouble to receive that kind of recognition. In that <i>Bobby, stop talking! </i>or <i>I didn't call on you, Miss Granger! </i>kind of way.<br />
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But in one of my music classes today, as I was finding the relative minor of the some-or-other key that was on the board, the teacher turned to me and said, "Lizzie, will you come up and show us how you figured it out?"<br />
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I kind of had a heart attack. I sat there for a second, asked him to repeat the question, and fumbled out of my chair, sending my backpack and pens flying through the air. I scooped up my things and went to the board. I had to keep asking him what the question was because I was so distracted.<br />
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<i>My teacher knows my name!</i><br />
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Okay. Before you jump to conclusions about my mental well-being, just remember that time when you were just in the ensemble in the school musical and somebody went out of their way to tell you how they loved your performance. Or the time you had on cute new shoes and the girl who sits behind you in math noticed. They noticed! You're not as invisible as you felt when you woke up this morning!<br />
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I'm just so impressed that my teacher, with so many other students to keep track of and having never spoken to me, knew my name.<br />
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So I sent him an email to thank him for going out of his way to not only make that class one of my favorite classes, but to help me feel important by learning my name.<br />
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That's it. That's my email. But I'm happy. Tomorrow, I think I'll skip to class singing <i>Thoroughly Modern Millie</i>, or something.<br />
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If my darn flu will calm down. Shots don't work. They're fake. I want to meet the psychotic human being that started this mess of sticking needles into children. I'll slap him. With my left arm, because my right one is <i>paralyzed.</i><br />
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Lately, our apartment manager has been having competitions for our weekly cleaning checks. Normally I wouldn't consider participating in a competition where college women are being bribed to clean up after themselves my <i>favorite </i>way to pass the time, but the first prize winner wins homemade lasagna.<br />
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So, last week we scrubbed down every stinkin' inch of the apartment for <i>four hours. </i>We scrubbed and mopped and wiped and scraped and vinegared and brushed and chiseled until the place shined like the top of the Chrysler building. And we didn't even get in the top five.</div>
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This week, we took a different approach: <i>kissing up</i>. We were the cheesiest, lousiest, most shamefully corny kiss-ups in the whole dang world. We put pictures of Jesus and the temple in every mirror. We put a sign that said "What would Jesus do?" on our chalk board. We put every little quote the housing manager has ever given us on the fridge. We dusted off the Student Living manual and put it on the table to make it look like we've touched it in the last month.<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who took off her socks and threw them on the floor. Oopsie.</div>
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<i>n. </i>An abnormal fear of the night or darkness.<br />
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Here I am, a first-semester freshman in college, surrounded by all of this light. My life is full of good things! I'm a Student Ambassador, I'm working on a CEO consulting research team, I'm getting good grades, I'm getting involved in things like ushering devotionals, and I'm in the Relief Society Presidency. I get along with my roommates and I'm making new friends. It's light outside and I like it that way.</div>
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All my life, I've been the girl with the plan. In elementary school, I was the author. I was going to be the youngest woman in history with a Newbery Award-winning book. During recess, I was the kid in the corner scribbling frantically in the completely abused composition book and paying the recess lady to read the most recent chapter.</div>
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A few years later, I was going to be the youngest spy in the world. I delved myself so far into my fantasy of saving the world that I convinced myself I had already saved the world, at the expense of my memories. I had saved the world once before, sacrificed all my training and previous knowledge, and had been placed in a home with normal parents who knew nothing about my past. Someday, secret agents would show up at my doorstep and ask me for help - and I would be back in the game.</div>
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In high school, I was the composer. All I wanted was to be the youngest movie score composed in Hollywood. I was going to win awards like crazy. Hans Zimmer would be begging to work with me.</div>
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I had a plan. I had mapped out the plan so well, you could ask me where I would be in seven years exactly and I would know that day's breakfast menu. Pancakes.</div>
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I've only changed my mind maybe five times. But changing your mind gets harder and harder as time goes by. A few weeks after I graduated from high school, I switched one more time. Psychology.<br />
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I love it! I love my classes and I love the way this subject makes me feel. The only problem is that I'm flying blind here. I know what I want to do, but for the first time in my life, I don't know how to get there.<br />
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The future is <i>terrifying. </i>For the first time since Kindergarten, I don't know where I want to get my doctorate. I don't even know what I want to be the first at or who I want to beg for my assistance.<br />
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And it's scary because I still love music. How can a person feel such a pull in one direction when the other direction feels so good? What if I was only holding on to this ridiculous dream in the first place because it was the only thing I was good at?<br />
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I'm that first star I see at night, the one that comes out when it's still light outside, and it slowly gets dark all around it. In just the blink of an eye, here I am, realizing that it's dark outside, I'm lost in a sea of other perfectly round stars, and I'm scared of the dark.<br />
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Then again, the star is supposed to represent potential, right? So it'll just shine brighter in the darkness?<br />
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Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-45473597035584732702013-10-05T19:46:00.000-07:002013-10-13T19:47:08.705-07:00ProductivityProductivity can be so bipolar sometimes.<br />
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There are days when productivity means getting a lot of homework done. You do your projects that are due for the next month. You study for every test you'll have for the rest of your life. You memorize the physiology of the brain until you can feel your dendrites and synapses and frontal lobes collapsing. Your grades shine like the top of the Chrysler building.<br />
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There are days when productivity means getting your visiting teaching done for this month. You make two batches of cookies, you prepare a great spiritual thought, you grab your roommate and walk across campus to get to the apartment of your visiting teaching sister, and you spend a half hour of quality time with her.<br />
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There are days when productivity means practicing the viola for six hours. Two hours of individual practice, orchestra here, stand partner practice there, and some more individual practice. You crawl into bed at the end of the day and you can't sleep because your fingers are bleeding and as a college kid, you didn't think ahead to bring the super glue from home that you so desperately need right now. Idiot. Every musician needs super glue.<br />
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And then there are days where productivity is getting out of bed in the morning, regretting it, grabbing a glass of water, and then crawling back into bed to watch Psych reruns for a couple of hours. Good thing I don't have any homework due on these days. Ever.<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie, who rolled out of bed, scooped herself a new bowl of cookie dough, slipped back under the sheets, and pressed play.<br />
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Bring it on.Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6657642523648910995.post-85356468925656179582013-10-02T12:33:00.000-07:002013-10-02T12:33:07.794-07:00Once Upon a TimeThe beginning to any story comes with two implied circumstances: this is not the real beginning, nor is it the real end.<br />
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Any fairy tale comes with a back story that unfolds as the account progresses. Every character has already begun to walk the path that leads them to their conflict. They've already been through experiences that have shaped them into the protagonist.<br />
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<i>Once upon a time </i>is just that: the story happened once, a long time ago. The repercussions of its events have already begun to take effect. <i>Happily ever after </i>isn't the real ending; the bigger picture just hasn't been unveiled yet.<br />
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Now let's suppose I'm a character in a fairy tale. Like any other fairy tale, you don't know my back story. You haven't yet been told my name, my character, my mysteries, my life. You have only been given the circumstances that come with any other story: this is neither the beginning, nor is it truly "over."<br />
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Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lizzie.Lizzie Hawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04638008469944220941noreply@blogger.com0